I Lost My Boyfriend and I Want Him Back Forever

I was dating someone for a very long time. We know each other since high school.  We get along like nobody else and we were so sure that one day after we finish college and establish ourselves a little we will get married.  We never actually dated each other, we just lived with each other and did everything together.  There was nothing that I could ever think that would make us not be together or anything or anybody that would disconnect us from each other.

Everything was just good and natural from my end and from his side until a few months ago.  In the beginning I thought maybe he is just stressed out from his studies, later on I began to suspect that maybe he had someone else, but nothing made sense because everything we tried to do together there was an obstacle, we didn’t get along all of a sudden and many times I found myself alone, and things went like that week by week and I felt like I don’t even know this person anymore.

I was so upset so I decided, and I don’t know if it was smart or not, to talk to him about my frustrations and bring a list of some of the things that we are not doing together as before.  He answered that I am the one that is causing it and those conversations and level of relationship never happened to us before for over 5 years.

This is not who we are and what is happening I have no idea.  I try to be supportive and call and consider his schedule, and he called back and we continued our relationship in slow motion, until one day he did not answer my calls, or the numerous voice mails I left or the text messages.

I know he is receiving them, I know he is there, i know his parents and they told me.  So for some reason he is not responding.  It has already been a couple of months that passed by.  It is very difficult for me and I don’t know what to do.

My friends tell me to just move on, as some men are just like that.  But I know he is not like that and I do know him and I think we had a good relationship and I just want him back.

Our Solution:  We told her to try a few methods that increase love and fire between two people.  We were happy to hear that they got back together.

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  1. Lori says:

    I have a very complex situation. My husband does not get along with my teenager son (his stepson) to the point that my son wants to movd out to his father. Needless to say my marriage is on the rocks, I defend my son and he keeps on needling him to push away…he is determined to make him move away and says he is trying to tuin our marriage which is not true….all he wants is to hsve peace and quite.

    My husband is verballt, psychologicallt abusive and has bad temper. Married for 6 yrs together 9 yrs. Is there any hope? Ive tried going yo Haitian spritual healers, spent tons of money and nothing works.

    Before I begin divorce process wanted to reach out to you as my last hope.

    Please help. We do have toddler daughter together.

    Thank u.